Jodoh pilihan Family or Sendiri??

Ape pndpt korng psl topik nie?zaman skng pn still ade yg hidup atas pilihan family..so ape pro & cons nye korang rase?e'da skng dlm dilema,mak e'da xde la x suke dgn pilihan e'da,die suka tp die x nak lmbt2 kan kwin..xnak kwn lame2 sgt..sbb die x harap e'da bole jga diri klau die dah xde..mak e'da pun dok sebut2 je psl klau die pegi e'da mcmne..sbb die tau e'da msti lost klau die xde..e'da pn still bergntung harap lg dgn die..so klau die xde e'da nk harap pda spe klau bkn suami e'da.risau jgk..dh 2x org tnye e'da dh berpunye ke blom..kre dtg merisik la tp secara x rsmi..mak e'da x comment pape...tp e'da pn xtau la,belah bagi..dlm mse yg sma nak senangkan hati mak e'da,dlm msa yg sma nak jgk ikut pilihan mata hati..so far i've already meet my soulmate..atleast e'da dpt happy kan mak n senang kan hati mak..hope lps nie both of us n my mom tenang..sbb dh xde bnda nk d kejar dh lg..just planning 2 have a family..big or not bkn masalah die..both of us dah excited nak ade baby..smpai ktaorg siap buat kira2 semata2 nak having our own baby..hehe..but kind of excited..the most important thing is, bila dpt tgk my dear so excited..he really give me something..he really give me some hope & faith..